I would really hold off on buying the 2500K. Intel's Ivy line will be coming out (as was intimated above) in about a week and the prices are not bad at all. See:http://vr-zone.com/articles/intel-cuts-desktop-ivy-bridge-cpu-pricing-ahead-of-launch/15557.html
But for your specific needs, you should really looks at the Xeon line of CPU's- especiallyhttp://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16819115083&SortField=0&SummaryType=0&PageSize=10&SelectedRating=-1&VideoOnlyMark=False&IsFeedbackTab=true#scrollFullInfo
This CPU is built for the VM environment, will run happily with regular (non-ECC) memory, and can be plopped into just about any Asus, Asrock, or Gigabyte socket 1155 motherboard available. This particular processor is without a graphics component which I see as a good thing. It runs very cool and very solid. Also unlike the 2500k it has Intel Virtualization Technology (which you want) as well as having Hyper-Threading Technology (like the i7 CPU's).
As to your other needs:
If you aren't in any rush you can wait for the Intel 330 SSD's to arrive:http://www.fudzilla.com/home/item/26622-intel-slashes-the-cost-of-ssd
You may have noticed that the prices of many current SSD's have been dropping in anticipation of the launch.
Finally, if you need a very good Video card for a non-gamer, look to the Radeon HD 6450 products (fanless, of course). And always use Coolpacks to lay your hard drive on.