mounted the pump above the powersupply with rubber washers, and then used some soft rubber weatherstripping and squished it. Took out about 95% of the vibrations of the pump.
the 2 120's sucking out, and the 1 120 blowing directly up works PERFECT! ram is cool to touch, vid card ramsinks are even getting some air. HD's are taken care of with the 2 80's in front set on medium.
here are temps for those who were wondering
case - 23C
cpu - 32 idle 40 load
vid - can't tell yet..don't have my temp monitor yet.
case temps dropped about 5 degrees, and with 2 volts going through my cpu..and my r9700pro at 375 x 660....i can't complain about temps.
Most of you would have to wear earplugs just to get near my computer because you are all anal....or something.
But seriously...this things is pretty damn queit. I was actually surprised. PSU of course had to be the loudest thing.
Thanks for all your help and ideas guys...coudln't have done this without you all!!!!